In 12 days I will be a married man. Ever since I proposed to Ashley I have been getting advice, "Joel says this." "Joel don't say that" "Joel you should help with the wedding" "Joel you should avoid helping with the wedding." I am appreciative that Ashley has just wanted me to be me. If that means I help or don't she wants me to be true to who I am. In our culture we are told that we have to work hard to be the best person we can be...whatever happen to being made in the image of God. Don't get me wrong...I am not naive enough to think that when I get married everything will be easy and stay the same, but I also don't want to work so hard to become someone who isn't me. Isn't it logical that doing such a thing would only make the transition of lifestyles more difficult. So I am in love, getting married, and trying hard to stay true to who I am while discovering who we will be.
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